Finding Her Place in Malaysia
Irene had just arrived in Malaysia to begin her university studies. The first week felt overwhelming. The weather was hotter than she expected, the food was spicy, and she was still learning how to use the bus and train. Although her classmates were friendly, she sometimes felt shy to join their conversations, especially when they switched between English, Malay, and other languages.
One afternoon, she decided to visit the student counsellor, Ms. Aisha. The office was quiet and welcoming.
“Hello, Irene,” Ms. Aisha said kindly. “How are you adjusting to life here?”
Irene admitted that everything was different—food, culture, even classroom style. “Sometimes I feel left out because I don’t know how to join in,” she said softly.
Ms. Aisha listened carefully. She explained that many international students feel this way at first. She encouraged Irene to try small steps—joining the International Student Club, exploring Malaysian food with local friends, and asking questions when she was unsure. “Remember,” she said, “Malaysia is very diverse. People here love to share their culture. If you show interest, you will quickly find friends.”
Walking back to her hostel, Irene thought about this advice. She realized she didn’t need to change who she was—she just needed to open herself to new experiences. That evening, when her roommate invited her to try nasi lemak at the night market, she said yes. It was a small step, but it felt like the beginning of something new.
Discussion Questions:
1. In the story, what were some challenges Irene faced when she first arrived in Malaysia?
2. What advice did the counsellor, Ms. Aisha, give to help Irene adapt?
3. How did Irene take her first step to adjust after visiting the counsellor?
4. If you were Irene, what would you do differently to adapt to life in Malaysia?
5. What challenges are you personally facing right now in Malaysia, and how can you take small steps to overcome them?